Emotional Magnetism - How to Communicate to Ignite Connection in Your Relationships
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- Create Date：2022-08-21 10:53:20
- Update Date：2025-09-06
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- Author：Sandy Gerber
- ISBN：177458199X
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Summary
Emotional Magnetism is the self-help book for people who want to improve their communication and connection in their relationships。
Have you ever felt unheard or misunderstood？ Maybe your partner just doesn't seem to get why some things are important to you。 Or perhaps your boss is seemingly oblivious to half the things you've pointed out in the past week。 You're not alone。
In this life-changing book， communications expert Sandy Gerber reveals how， by understanding the Four Emotional Magnets that motivate people to listen and act， she transformed her relationships - and how you can do the same。
Gerber's highly relatable stories， sage advice， easy exercises， and Emotional Magnets quiz， helps you to:
● Identify what blocks your communication NOW。
● Discover what you emotionally NEED to be happy。
● Learn HOW to create greater engagement with your words。
● Understand WHY the people in your life make the choices they do。
As you'll quickly discover， when you know how to communicate what you need to be happy and respond to the Emotional Magnets of the people around you， you'll magnetize your relationships。 Not only will you be heard and understood， but you'll understand what people want - and how to deliver it。
The book is excellent to read and discuss as an individual， couple， or in a book club or small group。
Have you ever felt unheard or misunderstood？ Maybe your partner just doesn't seem to get why some things are important to you。 Or perhaps your boss is seemingly oblivious to half the things you've pointed out in the past week。 You're not alone。
In this life-changing book， communications expert Sandy Gerber reveals how， by understanding the Four Emotional Magnets that motivate people to listen and act， she transformed her relationships - and how you can do the same。
Gerber's highly relatable stories， sage advice， easy exercises， and Emotional Magnets quiz， helps you to:
● Identify what blocks your communication NOW。
● Discover what you emotionally NEED to be happy。
● Learn HOW to create greater engagement with your words。
● Understand WHY the people in your life make the choices they do。
As you'll quickly discover， when you know how to communicate what you need to be happy and respond to the Emotional Magnets of the people around you， you'll magnetize your relationships。 Not only will you be heard and understood， but you'll understand what people want - and how to deliver it。
The book is excellent to read and discuss as an individual， couple， or in a book club or small group。
Reviews
Reader Views
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Have you ever misunderstood what others meant by what they say？ Have you ever felt misunderstood by your partner， friend， coworker？ Have the people in your life not understood why certain things are important to you？ Have you questioned why others find certain things important to them？ “Emotional Magnetism” might be just the tool you need to help you and the others in your life better understand each other。“Emotional Magnetism” walks readers through common communication blocks， common needs for Have you ever misunderstood what others meant by what they say？ Have you ever felt misunderstood by your partner， friend， coworker？ Have the people in your life not understood why certain things are important to you？ Have you questioned why others find certain things important to them？ “Emotional Magnetism” might be just the tool you need to help you and the others in your life better understand each other。“Emotional Magnetism” walks readers through common communication blocks， common needs for readers， ways of learning how to improve engagement and finally helps readers better understand why others make the choices that they make。 There is also an easy quiz for readers to take to help them figure out what is most important to them in their lives。There are four magnets that Gerber discusses: experience， safety， value， and achievement。 Gerber breaks them down and uses real-life examples to show readers what it looks like when a person falls under each magnet。 Gerber also shows the common communication block and what is important to that type of person。 It adds helpful insight to both the person who is that magnet and the people around them。 It allows the person who has the type of magnet to be aware of their communication block so that they might continue to communicate differently when trying to get their point across。 It allows people outside that magnet to understand why the person acts the way they do。Gerber does a great job of explaining where her original sources for communication styles came from and turns them into a functional tool for everyone。 She also clearly states that she is not a therapist， but that she is in the marketing realm， where communication is important。 Knowing that she is not coming from a psychological background helps make this communication toolset more tailored to everyday life and use。Even though this reader has the psychological education， “Emotional Magnetism” is realistic and great for everyone。 It is not told in complicated terms and has lots of everyday examples of how to apply the communication toolset。 This can help almost anyone ranging from divorced partners who have to co-parent， to coworkers， and even friends who seem to have a strained relationship。 。。。more
Kelly Schuknecht
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I thoroughly enjoyed reading Emotional Magnetism！ I love personality tests and tools that help us get to know ourselves better and how we relate to the people in our lives。In this book， there are four emotional magnets （safety， achievement， value， and experiences） and a quiz to help you identify which one is your primary emotional magnet。 Learning about these emotional magnets—and the motivations and blockers that come with them— can help in how you approach certain situations with other people。 I thoroughly enjoyed reading Emotional Magnetism！ I love personality tests and tools that help us get to know ourselves better and how we relate to the people in our lives。In this book， there are four emotional magnets （safety， achievement， value， and experiences） and a quiz to help you identify which one is your primary emotional magnet。 Learning about these emotional magnets—and the motivations and blockers that come with them— can help in how you approach certain situations with other people。 You learn how to “speak their language，” and this can help improve your communication with them overall。I was surprised to learn that my primary magnet wasn’t what I thought it would be。 But after reading more about it， I started seeing evidence of it in my day-to-day conversations and decisions。 I also identified my husband’s primary magnet。 When I told him about the book and which magnet I suspected was his， he totally agreed。 He thought the book sounded interesting and wants to read it next。Emotional Magnetism is a quick read （just 169 pages）， but I plan to go back and re-read the parts specifically about my emotional magnet and my husband’s because I think it’s worth spending a little more time studying in-depth。 。。。more
Literary Reviewer
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Emotional Magnetism by Sandy Gerber is a refreshing self-help book that helps readers reassess the blockages in their relationships。 Whether you’re struggling to succeed at work or in your parenting style， Gerber uses real facts and anecdotes to bring you up to speed on what’s going so wrong and how you can fix it to achieve balance in your life。The book is divided into three parts: defining the operatives of emotional magnets， an in-depth breakdown of each persona and its creation and finally， Emotional Magnetism by Sandy Gerber is a refreshing self-help book that helps readers reassess the blockages in their relationships。 Whether you’re struggling to succeed at work or in your parenting style， Gerber uses real facts and anecdotes to bring you up to speed on what’s going so wrong and how you can fix it to achieve balance in your life。The book is divided into three parts: defining the operatives of emotional magnets， an in-depth breakdown of each persona and its creation and finally， discovering your own personal Emotional Magnets。 Gerber has created a simple and practical guide for heightening your self-awareness around emotional needs—your own and others’。 By using the teachings of Gerber’s ‘SAVE’ （safety， achievement， value， experience） method found in this book you’ll have the opportunity to test yourself with the Emotional Magnets quiz and learn the four easy steps to becoming an Emotional Magnet in your relationships。 The exercises， quizzes and advice are uniquely eye-opening， comforting， and can be life-changing。Through the use of her own experiences gained from two failed marriages， co-parenting struggles and the building of a marketing empire she has established a wealth of knowledge and credibility that the reader can trust without feeling attacked。 The author include real statistics from reputable sources like the Harvard Business Review， which ensures the book is factual and pragmatic。 The facts compel the reader to pause and reassess one’s own life professionally and domestically。Gerber states that， although she is not a psychologist， she is a communications expert and praise must be given for the forthright and honest approach adopted。 An impeccable identification of audience truly allows for the improvement of your ability to communicate in a way that positively engages and influences others in a win-win way。 Emotional Magnetism: How to Communicate to Ignite Connection in Your Relationships by Sandy Gerber is an empowering self-help book that will improve your self-awareness， communication skills， and your relationships。 。。。more
Bookreadersclub
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Personal life or professional life communication plays an important role， and it could be one of the deciding factors for success and the quality of relationships we have in our lives。 In this book， Emotional magnetism， Sandy Gerber addresses how to create close human relationships based on understanding people's needs， which basically fall into four categories: Safety， Achievement， Value， and Experience （S。A。V。E。）。 She calls these four emotional magnets， and it's one emotional magnet that is do Personal life or professional life communication plays an important role， and it could be one of the deciding factors for success and the quality of relationships we have in our lives。 In this book， Emotional magnetism， Sandy Gerber addresses how to create close human relationships based on understanding people's needs， which basically fall into four categories: Safety， Achievement， Value， and Experience （S。A。V。E。）。 She calls these four emotional magnets， and it's one emotional magnet that is dominant in every person and tends to dictate their decisions in life。 The book is divided into three parts: 1。 What is Emotional Magnetism？2。 The Emotional Magnets3。 Finding your Emotional Magnet First， she explains the concept of Emotional Magnetism， then the second part， discusses about the four Emotional Magnets in details like what they are， how they behave， and how you can use them to communicate effectively， and Lastly in the third part， there's a '22 questions' quiz to identify your main Emotional Magnet and the four steps to activate Emotional Magnetism。 Most importantly， this book is not about manipulation but about understanding yourself and others。 Emotional magnetism teaches why we are attracted to or repelled by certain experiences， words， and actions。 It can help you in two ways to become a better communicator: you become more self-aware and learn to communicate better and address your own needs， and second， you have more empathy for others because you understand better the reasoning behind people's behaviour。 This is a compact size book， written in easy language， and so compelling that you can finish it in one-two sittings only。 It is a powerful and thoughtful guide to unlocking better communication and connection in your relationships。 I personally learned so much from this book and would highly recommend it to everyone who is looking for a great book on communication。 。。。more
Andrea
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